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The Good With The Bad

February 8, 2009

It has been a long time since Jenn or myself posted anything on Catriona’s blog.  Too long.  She keeps us very busy.  Very very busy.  But I know that a blog is only as good as the last update and I am going to try to do better to keep this site as I originally intended it to be:  one stop shopping for information about my beloved little girl.

Which leads me to the latest on my little friend.  On Sunday February 1st 2009, my beautiful daughter Catriona developed a fever later in the day.  She had seemed OK all day long, and then was extremely warm in the evening.  This is of course a prime time of year for colds, flu, etc so this was probably not surprising to anyone, least of all a respiratory therapist.  Jenn was heading to Ottawa for Monday evening, all day Tuesday, and into the evening Wednesday for a conference about the science cirriculum.  She had been asked to do this, as opposed to this being something she chose to do, and it was important for her to go and take part from a professional point of view.  I told Jenn I would stay home with Catriona, and take care of her.

Upon her awakening on Monday Feb 2nd, I knew that she was indeed sick.  Still warm to the touch, she was also very clingy, and not willing to eat or drink much (one thing we have been blessed with is a little girl who tries most foods at least once, and is very independent).  I figured, “Oh well she’s sick.  We’ll try to keep giving her fluids, and we’ll play in downstairs and if she looks tired, I’ll put her to bed.”.  Indeed I did this.  She slept off and on for about 2.5 hours in the afternoon, and woke up really no better than earlier.  In fact, it was arguable that her fever was worse, showing 103 degrees F on the thermometer.  And with perfect timing she woke up at 3:00pm, exactly when the local pediatric clinic closes.  So I whisked her to the ER at the hospital (where I work).  I knew Chris, the RN on Triage that day.  He checked her over, and gave her Tylenol to try to break the fever.  We sat in the waiting area for a relatively short hour or so, before being taken in to Room 2 of the Belleville General ER.  There we waited for the doctor to arrive.  Once he did, Catriona was checked over.  Ears, throat, temperature all were looked at.  Then the dreaded sampling of nasal secretions to test for Influenza A and B, and the evil RSV (Respiratory Syncytial Virus).  One involves suctioning a small amount of mucous from the back of the nose, where it meets the oral cavity.  This is called nasopharyngeal suctioning and it is just about as pleasant as it sounds.  The other, the swab for RSV, involves stickng a tiny brush in the baby’s nose, to gather mucousy secretions, so that lab can perform their tests, and it is actually a little worse than it sounds.  Thankfully, having been on the delivering end of both of these tests at some point in my career, I knew what was coming and handled it OK.  I can see how a non-medical person might not however.  These people have now all made Catriona’s “list” as the case may be.  Catriona eventually fell asleep on the gurney (something she NEVER does), and I stayed with her, keeping Jenn up to date in Ottawa (and likely not making Jenn feel any better with every phone call).  Eventually it was decided that she likely had an infection somewhere, and that she could go home on 5 days worth of Zithromax (aka Azithromycin), “just in case”.  We went home.  Catriona went to bed.  I informed my boss I would not be in Tuesday either, as she was still sick and I was the only one home to take care of her.

Tuesday, pretty much started as Monday.  No eating.  Minimal drinking.  Fever, that responded to Motrin for a while.  I called our family doctor and got Catriona an appointment for that afternoon.  She was very much not herself, and very very tired to boot.  Nevertheless, we tried to have a normal day, and went to the doctor for 2:45pm.  He felt that her ear canals weren’t infected, her chest sounded clear, and her upper airway (ie: throat) were inflamed and therefore likely the source of the troubles.  He agreed with the antibiotic order from ER, and said to continue with it.  We went home.  More Motrin was given.  Catriona slept OK, but did wake up twice in the night.  I called my Dad (aka Grandpa) to come down and look after her on Wednesday, as I had now missed 2 days, and she would not be going to daycare on Wednesday either.  He agreed to look after her, and we were set for Wednesday.  Besides, Jenn was coming home that evening, and that would surely perk up my little girl.

Wednesday I had to work in Trenton (about 20 minutes from Belleville).  Upon waking Catriona was crying, which I felt was not a good start, but likely was just because she spotted “a stranger” (aka Grandpa).  Like it or not, she usually can tell when I’m going to work as well, so I figured she might sense that I was leaving without her, which of course I was.  So I left her with Grandpa, and travelled to Trenton.  It was not a busy day at work, which is the worst when you leave your sick daughter at home with her Grandpa, and don’t really want to be there.  I resisted checking in with my Dad until about 10am, approximately 10 minutes after Jenn had called him from Ottawa.  Dad said that she wouldn’t let him put her down, and she would cry if they sat down.  Needless to say my Dad was getting a sore back.  I told him she had been like that for 2 days, and likely that was just her because she was sick.  I went back to work.  At about 2:30pm, my phone rang.  It was my Dad.  He informed me that he didn’t think that Catriona was breathing correctly and that he had  tried to see where Jenn was (she had decided to come home early from Ottawa, knowing that Catriona was not well), but could not get ahold of her.  I told him that Jenn should be home arond 3:30pm, and he should just keep Catriona as happy as possible until then, and we would both be home soon.  I managed to hit my car at 3:30pm, and received a call from Jenn, who was now home.  We were taking Catriona to the hospital again, as she was not responding much to people, very tired, and not eating or drinking, and her breathing was laboured.  I managed to get home from Trenton in about 9 mins (I know this, because I never got to the 2nd song on the album I was listening to on my iPod and the first one is about 9 minutes long).  We packed up and headed to the hospital, for the second time in 3 days.

We spent a much longer wait in the ER this time, before getting to head to Room 5 of the the ER department.  There we were greeted by a very nice doctor, who informed us that the original RSV test had come back positive.  This is bad, because it pretty much meant that we were staying for at least a day.  She also told me that Catriona was dehydrated (we figured) because she hadn’t been drinking enough.  This of course meant that Catriona would have to have an IV inserted.  Chris and Rebecca, both RNs in the ER, tried and tried to get her IV put in, but she was so dehydrated that her veins were basically flattening out whenever they tried to put in the needle, thus not allowing access.   Finally, they let a third nurse try, who nailed it.  We had an IV and a good one at that.  Catriona was hooked up to an IV pump with normal saline, and given a 200ml bolus (think large amount of fluid) before being set to a 40ml/hour infusion of saline.  It was noticeable immediately that this was going to eventually turn her dehydration around.  Even just a good 100ml in, she was much more alert, but of course sleepy, as it was well past bedtime for her.  We were admitted to hospital, seen by Dr. Dempsey, the pediatrician who was on call that night, who informed us that this could be a slow process and that she might not be going home for a few days.  We were to be transferred to the seventh floor (Quinte 7.  The pediatric and maternity floor).  He also managed to let it slip that there had been something like 7 different cases involving kids in the ER that night, by that point (he would later tell me that he had a total of 29 cases by the end of that night, that he was looking after.  29!).  While I was out getting a few things from home, the porter came and took Jenn and Catriona upstairs to Quinte 7, where I met them.

Because it was so busy on Quinte 7 that evening, we had to share a room with another little boy who had RSV as well.  In his case he was only about 2 months old, and really having a hard time clearing his little airways.  His Mom was there as well (of course) and a very nice lady.  Jenn slept on a fold down chair in the room with Catriona, while I, being an employee of Quinte Health Care, knew that there was a bed on Quinte 4, in one of the rooms used for ECG’s.  So I informed the nursing staff that I had pager 651, and went to sleep in Quinte 4 for a few hours.

Over the next few days and nights, we met many new nurses, saw Dr. Dempsey again a couple of times, made countless trips to various fast food places and generally focused all our energies on getting Catriona better.  Jenn did not teach at all.  I worked on the Friday, but got permission to work in Belleville instead of Trenton so I could keep an eye on Jenn and Cat.  Slowly, the level of the IV was turned down, Catriona became more likely to drink a little bit and eat some small things.  In short she progressively got a little better each day, but it seemed like her fever would not break.  She was also started on antibiotics again (same one’s as were originally ordered for her at her initial ER visit, but because our second visit to ER did not include a continuance of that antibiotic regimen, we had to start over), which along with Tylenol seemed to quell the fever quite a bit.  Interestingly, due to how busy the 7th floor was during this time (both with new babies being born and child related diseases), both Catriona and her roommate, Logan, had to move to a different room in the dead of night one night.  This way all the RSV kids could be in the same room and not infect some other poor, sick innocent (except for myself who now has a cold, but can handle it, as I have larger airways).  More and more “the old Catriona” started to show up.  She would giggle when I was silly.  She would laugh hysterically when I was hiding behind a curtain and then jumped out.  She would eat a ton of lasagna, would drink more and more milk or water on her own.  But what was best to see was her return to playing.  She had totally stopped playing now, I realize, and I missed her playing with me, and with everyone in general, more than anything else.  She started to play again:  first with a plastic lid, then with some little cars and books, and finally with a ball that one of the other moms found and let her use.

Finally today, Sunday Feb 8th, nearly a week later, Catriona came home.  She is not yet perfect.  She still needs 2 puffs of ventolin every 4 hours for the next 2 days, and then as she seems to require it.  She still has a wicked cough, that is definitely coarse and sounds “wet”.  She is still tired, primarily due to sleep deprivation.  But she no longer has a fever, needs an IV, requires a steroid to be mixed in with her ventolin, or needs to be under the watchful care of the nursing staff.  This is all that really matters.

For all the negativity and anger that surrounds Quinte Health Care lately (and probably most hospitals in general), I’ve rarely been more proud of the employees of my place of work.  I would like to thank Chris, Rebecca, Julie, Paul, Nadia, Mary Jo, Kim, Sue, Shannon the student, Linda, and really all the staff of the ER and Quinte 7 of Belleville General Hospital.  All of you performed amazingly and were wonderful to us (yes, in spite of knowing me in some cases HEHE).  Mostly you made my little girl feel a whole lot better, as quickly as possible.  And for that I am eternally grateful.  I just hope that Cat continues to improve, but if she needs to go back, at least I know that the people at the hospital have the skills to help her out.

In closing , I will try to update this more often than I have.  There will many new things to speak of in the coming months and certainly Catriona continues to grow and learn.  And there are always lots of pictures to be seen (www.flickr.com/doccomoli/sets).  Sorry to have been away.  Glad to be back with this epic, and ultimately happy ended story.

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Not so much a baby anymore!

April 24, 2008

Well, our little Catriona gets bigger everyday.  She is such an amazing little girl.  She makes us laugh constantly, with her silly laugh.  Lately she has been sitting up on her own a lot more (her legs are finally getting longer giving her some support for that long torso of hers!), and will even stand up against the furniture by herself if you put her there.  I’m sure it won’t be long and she’ll be crawling around, getting into everything.

So far, she is loving this eating solid food business.  We’ve tried chicken (a favourite, just like her Mommy!), sweet potatoes, green beans (not such a fan), applesauce (Mmmmm…), avocado, carrots, as well as Farley biscuits and Baby Mum Mums.  She also enjoys some good pineapple or lemon to suck on, as well as a little bit of potato from her Mom’s plate.  She is quite independent and wants to help feed herself.  This makes quite a mess, but it is entertaining nonetheless.

She went to her first Blue Jays game last weekend, and seemed to get a real kick out of it.  She did really well, and also enjoyed her first GO train rides.  Next up, New York City!!  We also took her to the park for the first time yesterday.  She LOVED the swing and wasn’t quite sure what to make of the slide…
It’s really hard to believe that she was born six and a half months ago.  In some ways, it seems like she has been a part of our family forever.  In other ways, it is crazy to see how fast the time has gone by!  Each day brings new experiences and joys to our lives in watching her grow up (a little too quickly…).

We hope that everyone has been enjoying the pictures on Flickr.com which we have been trying to update
as often as possible.  Thanks for reading!

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Growing Up So Quickly

February 29, 2008
Well, little Catriona isn’t so little anymore! She will be 5 months old on Tuesday and is now just over 15 lbs! She is in love with many things, Mommy and Daddy being the top of the list! She loves to go in the Jolly Jumper (she’s a two footed jumper), hearing silly songs from either parent, playing in the mirror (especially with her father!), and new as of yesterday, playing with her toes! She starting rolling from her tummy to her back in December, and still doesn’t roll the other way, though she just rolled onto her side today! We are spoiled by her night time sleep and her naps are even getting better (in fact, she’s asleep right now, I’m not neglecting her!). Today, a big milestone, she sat up by herself for 5 seconds and I even got a picture!!

She also loves spending time with her grandparents and great grandparents. What a lucky girl she is! Her great grandparents even took us out for lunch last week. Her Grandma and Grandpa Currie will soon be home from a month long trip to Florida, so we are all excited to see them again!

Her baptism has been booked for the 29th of March and it will be held in the church where we were married, which will be very nice.

We are trying to keep Flickr updated with pictures showing how beautiful she is becoming and trying to show the new things she’s trying (like a sippy cup this week!). Still no solid food (other than the things her Grandma lets her have – a carrot to suck on this week!), but I’m sure that will be upon us sooner than we know it!

Life as we know it is wonderful for sure…

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More Photos!!

January 24, 2008

There have been many requests for more photos, and I had a moment to sit down and add a few (39 to be exact) ranging from December to today. Doc/Darren has been very busy in his home hours spending time with Catriona and I, therefore not having time to do so. She’s growing so quickly, that it’s hard to believe she’s not even 4 months old yet. She now weighs 13 lbs 13.5 oz (as of Tuesday) and is getting longer/taller as well. She loves to stand up (especially when being burped), can roll over tummy to back and has been teething the past few days. Every day brings something new, more smiles and laughs (especially at Mommy and Daddy in the mirror!) and great joys to all of us! Now that she’s going to bed by 7:30pm, we will hopefully have time to update this a little more often!

Jenn (& Doc and Catriona)

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Photo Flood

November 28, 2007

Just a quick note on here for today.  Catriona seems to have finally managed to get past her first cold.  I won’t go into details but let’s just say that I sucked some of the nastiest stuff from her nose in the last 3-4 days.  But she seems to be over it, which means I might be able to sleep a little better soon.  Otherwise she is wonderful and is smiling at us/with us more and more each day.  It’s a cliche but they really do grow up soooo fast (now I understand).

Sorry for the long delay, but it has been busy around here (both with Catriona and work wise for me, with a new schedule having started and being on call a little more).  This is just to let you all know that there are new(er) photos on my flickr site, so you might want to go check those out when you have a chance.  What I have done is put up the individual sets but also I have created a collection of all the Catriona photos, which I will be updating as well.  The same photos are in both areas, but it just allows you guys some “1 stop shopping” for pictures.

That’s all for now.  I still have more pictures to put up, and hopefully will get to update this site more as well.  Thanks for reading, and feel free to comment on anything.  I would welcome any constructive criticism and/or advice.  Take care.

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Silence. Not Always Golden

November 18, 2007

Sorry.  Upon further review, I realize that THAT title is a lot more ominous than I had intended.  Let me start by saying that Jenn, myself and especially Catriona are all wonderful.  No one is sick, ill or injured.  But you will see before this post is done, why the title says what has been going through my mind today.

Catriona has had some busy times lately.  Mainly it’s been a life of figuring out whose hands keep touching her face (the answer is, they are her own hands), getting a better handle on when sleepy time is VS when play time is, and naturally the usual eating, sleeping, diaper destroying that all babies learn and love.  But she also has had some adventures.  A few weeks ago, she had to have a head X-ray, to see why she suddenly had new bumps on her head.  Our family doctor was concerned that maybe the bones in her head might be fusing too early, which can lead to brain injury, and sometimes decreased brain function in the future.  So it is important to be proactive when this is the possible outcome.  As far as we know, there is nothing to report.  We haven’t officially heard back from the doctor’s office on it, but what matters more is that the bumps have now disappeared and Cat’s head seems as lacking in lumps as it should be.  I can’t stress this enough:  BABIES AND X-RAYS ARE AN EVIL MIXTURE.  Avoid at all costs, unless you like screaming.  But I listen to heavy metal and even I had never heard screaming like Catriona put out that day.

We also dressed up Catriona for Hallowe’en.  She was a little penguin and thankfully she slept a great deal of the time that the costume was on.  Pictures on flickr are pending (mainly due to time management issues on my part, but I’m working on it).

Last weekend, Jenn’s choir had a shower for her and Catriona where Cat received all sorts of wonderful gifts.  All useful and beautiful and we can’t really ever thank Jenn’s amazing choir-mates, for all they do for her/us.

But the fun didn’t stop there.  This weekend, Catriona and Jenn had a surprise shower thrown for them, by Jenn’s friend Lori, and Jenn’s Mom (who we call Grandma around here now).  My Mom, and some of Jenn’s friends, along with extended family came down to Carol’s house for the party and everyone had a good time.  Then Jenn took Catriona to the Bellefontaine family Christmas party (I didn’t feel well, so I stayed home and rested), and lots of people there hadn’t seen Jenn in more than a year (in some cases, longer than that), and no one had seen Catriona.  I’m sure she was the hit of the party (she often is).  Sunday, Jenn, Jenn’s Mom, Anne and Lori all got together (with Catriona of course), to do their annual Christmas baking day.  So as you can see it’s been a super busy weekend for Mother and Baby (and needless to say a quiet one around home for me).  I missed them all terribly while they were gone, but I’m glad that Jenn and Catriona had a change of event and scenery, and that I had a chance to do a couple of things that I wanted to as well.  A nice change, but I like spending time with my family so hopefully next weekend we can all do something together.

Oh and why is silence NOT always golden.  Well, last evening, Catriona went to sleep at 10pm.  As did Jenn and I.  Jenn woke me up at about 4:30am and asked me to go check on Catriona because Jenn was scared to.  Cat is normally an extremely noisy sleeper but last night she made absolutely zero noise the whole time and it freaked us right out.  So I checked on her, with my heart pounding and some sweat on my brow, and I couldn’t hear her breathing even standing beside her crib.  So I stuck my finger in her ear, because I needed to hear her make any sort of noise.  Of course she responded with a snort or two, and then continued to sleep.  In total, Catriona probably slept about 7.5 hours straight last night (no I won’t get used to it.  Tonight she’ll probably wake up every 2 just to balance it all out).  Normally she’s awake every 4 hours.  7.5 straight freaked us out way too badly.  So while I’m glad she can do it, I think I need her to stick to the 4 hours.  At least for a little longer.

Photos on flickr soon, and hopefully more adventures for here even sooner.

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Road Trip

November 4, 2007

Yesterday, for what amounts to the first time, Jenn and I ventured out on a road trip to Kingston for part of the day.  And yes, of course, because we aren’t awful parents, we took Catriona with us.  I would have to say that , Cat did very well.  Lucky for us she loves car rides.  They seem to mellow her quite a bit, or even put her to sleep on occasion (like her mother.  And her Grandma Currie for that matter).  So the to and from Kingston wasn’t all that different from any other trip for Jenn and I.  Our main destinations were to hit Costco, load up on gigantic quantities of…well whatever we found, then head to Lone Star for lunch (Catriona permitting), and then head back to Belleville, possibly for a nap.  And it pretty much went just like that.  We managed to keep Catriona asleep during our whole tour around Costco.  She was awake but quiet during lunch at the Lone Star (which is one of the noisiest places on the planet I think.  She deserves some credit.).  So overall, our first road trip was a good one.  I was quite impressed.  Never mind that when we got home and fed her (frankly just in the nick of time), she then slept beautifully for a while.

Otherwise, it has been the usual around here.  Catriona sleeps, we try to sleep at the same time if we need to.  Catriona is awake, we try to play with her a little bit, but without overstimulating and getting her freaked out.  It’s a fine line, but one that Jenn and I are learning to manage  better all the time.  She is beautiful and we are learning more about her each day.  I truly can’t imagine our house without her (and frankly, don’t want to).

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The Snapshot fest continues…

October 24, 2007

So Catriona is almost 3 weeks old (as of tomorrow.  Scary huh?).  I can’t imagine this place without her.  I won’t lie and say that I don’t know how I lived before her, because I know for a fact that I used to waste a lot of time, played more video games, watched more movies, and frankly, slept.  While Cat has proven herself to be a fairly quiet baby, and a decent sleeper, she has her moments like any baby, and certainly has had Jenn and I near tears on occasion, simply out of frustration.  But she is an absolute joy, the love of both of our lives and we honestly would rather have her here and not sleeping, than to not have her at all.

I have posted more photos of her on flickr.com.  Please go there and check out how wonderful Catriona Currie is (yes I’m still biased).  Oh and if you are in the neighbourhood (ie: Belleville area), please drop me a line/phone call, and come visit.  I won’t promise she’ll be happy, but Catriona will almost definitely be here to greet you.  Yes, even in her sleep.  Until next time…

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Origins

October 11, 2007

Because I’ve had a lot of people ask me about it since we named Catriona a little more than 1 week ago, I wanted to set the record straight.  Catriona is pronounced the same as the better known Katrina in North America.  Many people have attempted to call her CAT-TREE-OH-NA and while this would be a fine name, it’s not our daughter’s name.  Catriona, Katrina and Katerina are all related, in that they are variations on the name Catherine, from a variety of nations.  Catriona is Scottish/Gaelic.  Katrina is German in nature.  Katerina is slavic.  All have the same meaning:  pure.  It is worth mentioning however that we didn’t name Catriona what we did for any distinct reason except that we really liked that particular spelling of her name.  We certainly didn’t wish to name her after The Hurricane (and yes sadly I’ve had at least 4 people, suggest to me that maybe we had).  Much as we like her and commend her achievements, we didn’t name her after Canadian Olympic Speedskater Catriona Lemay Doan.  In fact, Jenn had a friend in University named Catriona, and Jenn always liked the spelling and that name.   And I was all for it.  I’m sure our daughter will curse our names everytime someone mispronounces her name in the future, but alas, at least she didn’t have a boring name.  Besides, I’ll take all bets that she gets called “Cat” by friends anyway.  I know I already have.

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Photos of The Cat

October 9, 2007

Catriona CurrieWell it’s been a busy few days around here, as you can imagine.  Jenn and Catriona stayed in hospital until Saturday morning (and yes I was right there with them the whole time), and then once Cat had passed all the tests, and Jenn was feeling a little better, they sent us on our way.  Which of course led us to Burger King to get Jenn some REAL food (you know the state of hospital food when The King is coming off as real food).  This all worked out wonderfully, as it gave Jenn and I the better part of a day to figure out how all this baby stuff works around home.  Slowly but surely we have.  What also worked out well is that because Thanksgiving dinner was slated for Sunday, and a great deal of Jenn’s family (along with my parents) were all coming to Jenn’s Mom’s (aka Grandma’s) house for dinner.  This means that the majority of family members could meet Catriona for the first time all at once.  Overwhelming sure, but also convenient.  And generally that went very well.

Today Jenn and I have taken Cat to our family doctor, who gave her his seal of approval, along with some medically backed up advice.  We also went to our local Health Unit as they offer a weekly weigh in for babies, where we found out that Catriona had gained about 3/4’s of an ounze since she left the hospital.  This is good news, as it means she is getting enough food and gaining weight.  So it’s been a busy week, as I said.  Sadly tomorrow is my last day off, before I return to work on Thursday.  I am not going to want to, but my contribution to this is the make money and I need to be at work to accomplish that.  I figure that once I’m able to take some more time off, I will,

while Jenn is off, when Cat is capable of doing more things than she can now.  I am sad that I will miss out on subtle changes each day while I’m at work, but we can’t all be everyone all the time.  Jenn will see them and I think she will need some Mommy/Daughter time soon, with just the two of them.

So far, I’m loving being a Dad, just like my Dad said I would.  It’s hard and I’m tired (and not half as tired as Jenn is).  But it’s fun to have this new little being here, and I love her so much.

Last word:  If you wish to see tons of pics of Catriona, I have put them up on my flickr.com account.  Go there to check out how cute she is (Yes I’m biased).